Your Rainbow is the unique, beautiful, quirky and individual YOU behind the layers and labels. It is your inner core, your strength and your essence and driving force. It is the YOU of YOU and makes you a 'one of a kind' creation.
It's so important to live your life your way. Energy, happiness, passion, confidence and a healthy self image depend on you being the individual you were meant to be and want to be. Passion filled Happiness is, in fact, an inside job. It comes from within you and colours your happiness, hopes and dreams and brightens the lives of all you touch and connect with. It is within you and within your reach. Take some time and take a good look inside. Rummage around a bit and find the good.
This isn't a issue of sexuality, personality or gender or simply choosing a camp or team or tribe to belong to. It's about being true to the whole, complex, integrated person that you are and being strong enough and aware enough and reflective enough to know yourself and be yourself.
It's vital to live your unique and quirky individual life and not live your label. Don't buy into the stereotypes that might surround you. Be who you are and who you are meant to be as an individual and unique creation.
Even if all those around you who identify themselves in a similar way are living in a similar way and doing similar things, it does not mean you need to do the same. Especially if doing the same does not bring you happiness.
So often a 'Be Yourself' slogan really means 'Be like US and not like THEM'.
Well.....Forget us and them ! It's all about you and all that you truly want to live and have and be.....no matter how simple, grand, individual, quirky, different or surprising that may be. Don't follow the crowd and act according to the script. Forge your own path to the passion filled happiness you really want. Don't be bamboozled into thinking there is a package deal to accept, a lifestyle to follow, a mapped out journey to navigate or a way to do things. Your hands are not tied. The script can be rewritten at any time or as many times as you see fit. The cast of characters can change in one stroke of the pen.
Your life, your goals, your path, your happiness and your lifestyle are all totally up to you and fully within your reach no matter how you may identify or who you may love. These are the fundamental core issues that directly shape a life and are important to reflect on and explore in the quiet times, in journaling, with friends, a mentor or Personal Life Coach.
Living your rainbow is about standing tall and proud. Proud, not of 'what' you are but of 'who' you are and the beautiful possibilities and options for who you may blossom into as you grow. The concern with living a label and being what you are is that it can all too often deny you the freedom and space to grow into who you'd like to be.
My Coaching is about helping to change whatever is making you unhappy or confused or keeps you feeling stuck. It's not about changing the essential you or questioning the beauty of your gender or sexuality or the freedom to live and express yourself freely.
It's about living an 'Integrated Life' and sharing your 'Beautiful, Unique Rainbow Greatness' in a way that is personal and individual to you.....no matter what the the rest of the world, your world, tribe, scene or community might be doing.
Coaching is about peeling back the protective labels and layers and habits we can often hide behind to reveal the beautiful rainbow brightness within. It's about building a unique, happy, INTEGRATED life story for individual 'Men Who Date Men'.
It's really possible to build a Passionate life that celebrates your unique Rainbow GREATNESS.....day after amazing day !
A good Life Coach can help.....I can help.